~*~*~ There is a common saying in hospice when a patient is actively dying that describes their behavior, or symptom, as “having a foot in both worlds”. The quote describes the spiritual process of dying wherein the individual’s soul is so close to death that it experiences both planes of … Continue reading
~*~* There is something to be said about love that endures for six decades but words are not adequate enough to express that type of love. Research has recently shown that those who have been married for that long will show brain activity that is comparable to those that are … Continue reading
In order to accurately illuminate the basis of this article, the term religiosity is defined by the belief and practice of one’s religion while spirituality represents the feeling and connection to that belief. While offensive to some, it is important to differentiate between the two; although, there is an understanding that one can be both … Continue reading
Discouraging as it may be, signing advanced directives do not always ensure your wishes will be followed. There have been numerous instances wherein an individual had prior advanced directives and the doctor or the family refused them. Each scenario involved a person with an end stage terminal illness, could no longer speak for … Continue reading
I am not the biggest proponent for feeding tube insertion, particularly when the individual is terminally ill and nearing end-of-life. However, I have an innate value for self-determination and I truly believe that everyone has the right to follow their own path, even when I may feel a mistake is … Continue reading
Too often we disregard the elderly when we should, in fact, place greater value in their worth. We allow our judgments and misconceptions to lead us instead of opening our hearts to help guide our path; and, we allow our busy lives to get in the way of helping and … Continue reading
One of the most common questions in small talk is, “what do you do?” In hospice, we are usually well prepared for the expression that will follow – sorrow and confusion. At times the look suggests, “I wish I hadn’t asked”. Most often the subject matter changes -who wants to … Continue reading
Debate seems to be increasing about for-profit vs. non-profit hospices. Both have valid points, as do many arguments, but it is discouraging for me. Hospice care is in my heart and soul, I carry it with me day and night. To know that people would solely run a hospice for … Continue reading